I have been hanging out with this guy, he's the most kind, caring, funny, and polite guy I've ever met. His smile just makes me smile and he doesn't judge me on my past which is very important to me. But he's definitely not my type. I go for tall, buff, tattoos, the whole nine lol & he's short, chubby, bald, the whole nine. I didn't even care about how not attractive he was until my co workers started saying stuff about him and now I'm like second guessing it. My friends think he's alright but like he's definitely not the cutest thing I've ever seen if you know what I mean.... Is it really a big deal he's not? Like because I'm getting told that I'm too good for him and that "someone like you can't be with someone like that" which I don't think is right like he's so good to me and I've been hurt over and over again. I like him... But I also don't want to look like I'm just playing safe ya know?