how do you know if you've cummed? (female)

Question

My boyfriend asks me if I've cummed. I don't know if I have or not because I'm not used to myself cumming? What does it feel like? How do you know if you have or not?

Answer

I would say orgasm is "cumming". The feeling is very intense in a good way, and then you get very wet afterwards (which is the "cum" part). Some people "squirt" or have female ejaculation which is completely normal, but it doesn't happen for everyone. :)

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I've never cummed myself but apparently you'll know when you have. You experience orgasm first which is a sign you're not far from cumming (I've experienced orgasm) and then you'll know when you've cummed. It's a new feeling. Sorry if that doesn't help ☺️

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you will NOT necessarily know!! All my life I struggled with cumming and all the women in my life would say “believe me, You’ll KNOW!” That was really discouraging for me because I really couldn’t tell.It turns out, I didn’t know! Cumming is different for everyone! It took a lot of practice but I finally began to identify my orgasms- I was having them but I didn’t know it because I was looking for some HUGE obvious sign because that’s what everyone else told me I’d find! Follow your pleasure and keep practicing :)