literally annoyed at everyone's opinion regarding maternity leave where I work!!

Is it just me! Or does everyone where you work know best for your family!!! I am only having 9 weeks off work it's the most cost affective as we can't afford to loose my wage for £194 / week!! My husband will be taking 7 months off work at £194/week to compensate me working. MY HUSBAND will raise our baby whist I work - how is this soooo rediculous for people to comprehend!! Yes the baby will come out of me but it's far better our child is in the loving care 24/7 of his/her dad and me then a childminder (only as our preference) I know it's not for everyone but this is my family and our choice - end of rant😫😫😫