I am all over the place with my feelings on weight gain. Some times I feel perfect and other times Im worried about it. Theres such a wide range of normal and healthy. Ive come to the conclusion that we should do the best we can and then our body will do what it needs! And leaving it at that. Probably my hormones just making me all crazy. Any thoughts on this?

(Im 17 + 4 and I started at 150 lbs even at 5'9 healthy and a runner. And then by week 8 I was 160 even. Then NOTHING for another 8 weeks. But then as of a few days ago I am 163 even. Kinda cracks me up like its three pounds on the dot. So I feel like this is totally fine but then I read conflicting things. But all I ever hear from close family who have had kids that Im totally fine! Anyways these are just my details but just wondering anyone's thoughts on this whole thing. I do hate our whole weight shame thing our society has in general. We shouldn't have to stress about it while growing a human and yet I still am!)