Best friend issue

My best friend is pregnant. I'm very happy for her. But now she is pissing me off. It is her first baby. She and her husband have the money to buy things for him. But she keeps saying she's broke, asking people to give her stuff for the baby. I just gave her 500$ worth of stuff alone. She said she didn't want to spend to much money in a breast pump do I give her mine and a crap ton of clothe diapers.  I'm a little giving lol. But now she wants the stock pile of diapers and wipes, but does not want a baby shower. Oh I'm sorry what she has bought for the baby is a bath tub and second hand clothes. That's it. Everything else was giving to her by her family. The crib, swing. Tons of other stuff. Seriously?? If you can't afford the stuff now, so she says, what makes you think you are going to be able to afford it in a couple months?? I'm sorry it's just frustrating to see this. Yes I had help with my first, but I never asked anyone for anything!!!