So my brother fiance ( who has never had a baby ) wants me to do some bad things while I'm pregnant and it bothers me because every time I go to there house she always wants me to either drink or smoke weed with them and I'm just like do you not realize I have a baby in my belly . My boyfriend laughs at it and joins her in saying yeah bay it's OK but it's not OK my mother never did that with me I'm not doing that with my child and just because all of her friends smoked while pregnant doesn't mean I'm about to do it .... I'm already over protective of my baby and I refuse I voluntarily harm him in anyway especially knowing that getting pregnant and having a baby is a blessing itself.