did I lose my virginity by fingering?!

Question

So my boyfriend was fingering me and he only put one finger in me and when we were done 20 minutes later watery blood started coming out of me! Did he pop the cherry????!! We've never had sex and he's only fingered me a few times. Help!! My period was a week ago and the extra discharge stopped three days ago.

Answer

I'm at work, so I'm going to C&P, but the short version is that the idea of "popping the cherry" is a total myth. It's more likely that he scratched you.

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1154683

I’m not the first person to say this, but it bears repeating: hymens are a myth.

Or rather, intact, virginal hymens that can “break” or “pop” inside of us don’t exist.

Countless young women, myself included not so long ago, have fretted over what happens with the hymen during that inaugural vaginal intercourse, when the concern is scientifically futile. Hymens can’t be broken because there isn’t any kind of plastic wrap-like barrier sealing off the upper crevices of the vaginal canal like a Tupperware container of leftovers. In reality, if a girl’s hymen is completely intact — a rare medical occurrence — she would need a hymenectomy, or incision in the tissue, to allow menstrual fluids and other discharge to exit the body. Despite that gynecological truth, that collective imagining of the hymen as a sacred seal persists.

Answer

No losing your virginity is essentually having sex for the frist time (penis in the vagina)

But to each their own if you want to consider him fingering you losing your virginity then by all means go ahead

did I lose my virginity by fingering?!

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