sex... what's that?

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Ok so let me tell you during this pregnancy the whole pregnancy I do not want or crave sex! This drives my husband crazy!! First trimester I was worried about another miscarriage so I said no sex till after 12 weeks since I didn't want to bleed from having sex and fear I was having another miscarriage. Second trimester I just felt weird and I wasn't having it so we might have done it once...just out of pitty. Now I'm 33 weeks and half and hubby thinks I don't love him but I do love him I just don't want sex!!! I'm now afraid of early labor and don't want sex to bring it on.

Am I selfish to do just hand jobs for him during this time and not have any real sex since like end of February??

Ps after our first baby he wants more... like right away! Any suggestions from moms who had consecutive babies would be nice!

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I think you're fine just giving him hand jobs or nothing at all. You're growing a human and he needs to respect that and your fears of having sex might send you into labor. He's being selfish in my opinion trying t guilt trip you into sex by saying you don't love him because of it. Sex and love are 2 completely different things

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I'm the same way! We haven't had sex in months...whoops

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I was that way and I didn't feel like doing anything, he was kinda getting pissy. But these last few weeks I'm noticing I'm instigating it and who knows maybe because I know after the birth I won't have sex for a few months 👎🏼 but let me tell you, it's almost like your teenagers again once you can have sex after child birth🙌🏼

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I'll be 34 weeks tomorrow & I'm completely opposite. I beg for more and more sex, can't keep my hands to myself. In my second trimester it hurt really bad and I still wanted it. I would have sex ten times a day if he would. I think I'm broken. Lol

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I'm 34weeks & 3days
I know how you feel, sex is so uncomfortable for me. I can tell he's miserable with no sex, I honestly give my SO hand jobs and blow jobs; he doesn't complain and he understands that I just don't feel "it" right now with how big I am.
Alittle personally here, but have any of you ladies noticed a size increase in your SO testicles? Lol Because I noticed my guy has blue balls 😂😂😂

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You are not alone im 33wks and have not craved sex once since being pregnant lol and it drives my man crazy!

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I would take into consideration his feelings where you come to an agreement that is comfortable for you as well. But yea thats a long time w out sex and that is how men feel close to their partners.

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Soooo. Last night was the first night we had sex and holy hell it was so uncomfortable! Felt like a whale. Pain...your not missing out lol

sex... what's that?

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