My fiancé and I (who live together and sleep together every night in the same bed) decided to visit my extended family for the holidays with my parents who were also going down. We were originally going to get a hotel room, but my mom texted me and said she'd rather if we didn't "bc [my] sister wanted to sleep with me". That isn't her real reason but I decided to keep the peace for the holidays. Now that we're here, they've seperated my fiancé and me into opposite ends of the house and made me sleep with my 4 year old sister and 15 year old brother. I'm not comfortable sleeping with him some were both older and I know that they're only doing that to insure that I can't go sleep with my fiancé one they've gone to bed. Not even in a sexual way. Just not at all. First off I wouldn't do that some I understand that they're super religious and it would make them uncomfortable. I'm offended that first off they ate teeing to control me whenever is not their house and I don't live with them anymore. I'm also upset that they don't trust me and feel the need to have my teenage brother babysit me. I love with my fiancé and we share a bed. They know this and still insist on controlling an aspect of my life that they don't need to and shouldn't believe that they have control over. I am an adult. I am engaged. I don't live with them. I don't want their beliefs forced upon me when I'm not even under their roof anymore.