Any Mommas due 10/5?

I'm a FTM & due 10/5. I feel like I haven't made any progress at all. My lower back hurts constantly, and I'll have period like cramps but they are not really painful, so much as uncomfortable. I'm not sure if they are actual contractions or not. I had went in to L&D two weeks ago tomorrow and they had me on monitors & I was having contractions I couldn't even feel, but I was still only a 1. My OB hasn't checked since. I go back to the doc Wed, which is my due date & have no idea what to expect. 😩 I think my sons gotten too comfy in there.