red flags ?

Question

What are some things you consider major red flags in a relationship or dating someone?

The guy I'm dating and I have been having sexs. I told him to pull out he told me he would but he didn't. Told him to use a condom, he did but than he took it off and finished in me. He thinks because I'm in birth control it doesn't matter.

He isn't sbusive however when he gets angry or something he makes a fist and kind of like gets close to me and than just walks off. 
 
Would you consider these red flags ?

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To me, the condom thing is a deal breaker.

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Controlling, jealously issues, abusive, drug addictions or an alcoholic, always needing to know where I am,  him always needing to go off alone 90% of the time,  not listening or respectful in the bedroom, if your parents or most people in your family (including pets) don't like him,  all red flags.

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If your questioning whether it is, it's your minds way of telling you something's off. Just something to keep in mind!

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If he doesn't listen to you about your body it's time to go. If he repeatedly does something you don't like, especially during sex as that's a time of intimacy and trust, he isn't respecting your wishes and destroying that trust.
Of course, the first instance could be loss of control. The second definitely is not and would be a huge red flag for me.
The raising of a hand and walking towards me would be perceived as a threat personally. I would not stay.
However, if you have commitments or investments in him I say talk with him about it to clear airs and establish trust but if your concerns are met with resistance or dismissals I think he is not worthy of your attention.
Be happy, be wonderful, and good luck!

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Get out while you can. Seems like he's worried about other guys wanting you so he wants to get you pregnant so guys will back off.

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Uh yeah.

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DUMP HIM
He obviously doesnt respect you if he's doing that stuff during sex. He puts his "needs" before you and that is NOT okay. 
It doesn't matter if you're on the pill. What if you forget one day? Or take it an hour late? Then YOU will be in big trouble. He does not respect you and THAT is the biggest red flag of them all (arguably).

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