new and looking for advice

KK • A busy momma of 4 👶🏼. who works hard 💉. Is a travel feen. loves ☕️ , 💪🏼 🏋🏼‍♀️and her 2 😻. While loosing sleep to spend endless hours on glow. 💁🏼‍♀️
Hi I am new to the TTC group. I just had a baby last November and my husband and I are thinking about having another baby. We already have two boys and we desperately want a girl. Not that we wouldn't love a boy. We will love our next baby regardless of his or her gender. But This will be the last baby for us for many reasons, and we're both scared that we might not ever have a daughter :( . it's something that we've both always wanted. I want to hear from other moms that have listen to the wives tales and successfully had the gender they wanted...
 also should I find an OB before now or wait until I'm pregnant? (I didn't like my last OB).
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