What is it with people who can't just accept the fact that there are people in the world that you may not like but have to suck it up for the greater good? I have one "friend" pissed at me because I'm inviting an ex of his who I am still friends with and now he probably won't come. So I told him flat out that it's been years and he needs to move on, and this is our special day and if he doesn't want to come he doesn't have to.