SSRI's and pregnancy?

Hello! I'm TTC and have a 13 month old. When I was pregnant with him I was able to go the whole pregnancy medication free. Now, I experience daily anxiety and am contemplating going back on lexapro and staying on it through my next pregnancy. I know it increases your likelihood of your baby having a defect however the risk still remains low. I am just wanting to hear from anyone who was on a ssri and their child was fine, or anyone who's child may have had something wrong because of ssri?