I have to admit, I am always a little confused when it comes to who to give a Christmas or holiday bonus to and how much. But very obviously, many people depend on these year-end bonuses and they are very important.We have so very many women here on Glow. We would love it if you shared your experiences and expectations.

For example, if you are a Nanny - how much do you expect from the family you work for? If you employ a nanny - how much do you give? If you a 1st grade teacher, what do you expect from the parents of your students, if anything? Do you tip your mailperson? Or your dry-cleaner if you have one? Who do you tip and how much? Or if you yourself are in a service industry, how much do you expect? What makes you pleasantly surprised?

Let's create a knowledge-base of Holiday Tips and bonuses and demystify this process for each other.