Hi all! I'm only 15w4d today, but I'm already trying to get some details about my babyshower set in stone since I'll have it have it earlier than I typically would have it. I live in Dallas, TX and will be giving birth here but I'll be having my babyshower in San Antonio since I grew up there. I don't want to make the trip after I'm 30 weeks so I'm looking to have my baby shower either early December or early January after New Years. My question for you is: I want to make sure as many of my friends and family are able to attend. Should I do a pre-invite over Facebook and have my friends and family participate in a poll asking them which date will most likely be better for them? Then I'll send them physical invitations in the mail once I decide which date would be best. I don't want to come off as "trying too hard" but this is my first baby and I'm still dealing with extreme morning sickness so all I can really do during the day is plan stuff 😂