could I be?

Leah • I`m 33 years old, married to my best friend..we have an 13 year old daughter and a 4 year old daughter. Not ‘trying’ but not preventing.
I am 9 days late..took a test this morning and BFN but I've been checking my cervix which I know isn't a reliable thing but oh well..yesterday and today it is high, super soft and almost feels like it has a mucus around it? It's weird. Has anyone else ever had this? I didn't track all of this with my first pregnancy so I'm so confused!