Is it rude to not invite anyone who's not imidiate family to come to the hospital when the baby is born? I just feel like that's a special time to celebrate with the people closest to you. My extended family brings their drama every where they go and cannot seem to keep themselves under control. I do live with my grandmother that insists on inviting that extended family to baby related events (baby shower) and I don't want her to think it's ok to invite them to the hospital just because it's her family. I doubt they'll come after that happened at my baby shower 🙄😒 but they're crazy so they might just push those buttons.