I told my hubby that I would rather our 3 yr dd not stay at the hospital the whole time, he says well what are we going to do with her, mind you her grandparents are not far. But he thinks they will probably be at the hospital also. I don't mind her being at the hospital for a little while but take her somewhere else, she can be emotional at times and clingy, I don't want to deal. Plus when she finally does meet her brother I want to have a big sister party (really just a gift from the baby and a cupcake). What are your plans?