Does sex hurt the first time?

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I really think it's different for every person. For the two women above me above acting like it's ludicrous for it to hurt THE FIRST TIME maybe we're just lucky. I am a small girl and my boyfriend is much bigger than me. Bigger in every sense of the term. He ate me out for a very long time and use plenty of lubricant, as well as his own spit. Guess what? It still hurt. He didn't jam it in. He went very slow and very gently. But it hurt and he wasn't taking advantage of me and he sure as hell DID care if I was in pain because he contestantly asked me if I wanted to keep going and if he was hurting me. 
So maybe the two ladies above me had a different experience. But it is different for everyone. Don't try and tell me that the man I've been with for over two years was hurting me intentionally when he did everything he could to reduce the pain.

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I'm sick of people telling women sex should hurt the first time. No it shouldn't. That's just some stupid excuse for guys not to care about women's readiness or arousal in the situation. With lots of foreplay and lubrication it won't hurt. You need to be fully relaxed to avoid your muscles tensing up out of nervousness so get comfortable with your man first. Buy lube for the first time I strongly recommend buying lube and make sure that you two use lots of foreplay until you're super wet. Sex should NOT hurt the first time and it upsets me to see so many women have been taught otherwise.

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Sex should NOT hurt the first time.  With proper arousal and lubricant, there is no pain.

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It only hurt a little for me. Boyfriend had been fingering me for 3 or 4 months prior to us having sex.

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For MOSSSSST, yes!

Does sex hurt the first time?

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