is it easier with more kids?

Question

We've had a tough couple of weeks in our home with our little guy. He was really sick and then he has had a hard time sleeping so he's been sleeping in our bed with me and my husband has been sleeping on the couch. It's not ideal.
We're going to try a big bed for him. It comes Friday so I'm excited for that.

I've had a really tough time since having our little guy. I've always wanted a good amount of kids. I got married a bit later in life so I won't be able to have as many as I originally want unless I adopt. 
I've been feeling really overwhelmed the last little while and am losing confidence in myself. If I'm feeling this overwhelmed with only one child, how am I going to be able to have any more?! It makes me sad. It makes me feel like I'm failing or like I'm worthless.

I've heard it gets easier with more kids. Have you found that to be true? Please share! I want to know realities.

Answer

Ever baby at first is hard even with one to or 3 its a struggle at first that gets better over time. I felt like you with my first and I thought I would not be able to do it again. Well here I am 18 weeks 5 days scared shitless again how am I going to do this again but with 2 little ones around. Well in my eyes if got my first who's more then happy to help so you do have someone to entertain little one for a min. My nieces where the same way with my sister in law she said over time it became easier but she liked having at least the 2 so they had each other to play with

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They will go to school and move out one day! So if you do have more kids know that one day they won't be there its bitter sweet.. But as moms its what we do👍 I mean if you send them to grade school their only with you for four years but then you gotta help with homework etc. More you have the more you get to love on your babies😍  its like for every con there is a pro!

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It doesn't get easier. It's less sleep for sure.  More stress.. and if they're spaced far enough apart you have a newborn toting around to practice and school events etc etc. Some people want a huge family. It's ok if you're not one of those people.

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This is a first time mom group so this isn't a good group for that question

is it easier with more kids?

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