Hey everyone, so I just want some personal opinions. I used to be in a really bad relationship where I felt I was being used for sex and before we broke up (beginning of this year) he told me that he was only happy when he was having sex. So for the next relationship or the next person I start seeing I do want to wait. And this person actually told me that he wants to get to know me first. Instead of saying "whenever you think the time is right" - how long would you really say is a good amount of time to wait before I give my all to someone?