After coming from my gender reveal today the tech couldn't see the baby's sex she could hardly even see baby I immediately became alarmed because I had just seen baby at 12 weeks and it had only been three weeks she then went on to say if you don't feel OK make sure to reach out to your doctor if you feel like anything is wrong which basically implied that something must be wrong I immediately go to the emergency room and they take me in and do a sonogram and my husband was not in with me at this time the doctor performing the scan went on to say I'm sorry to tell you this but your baby is dead there is no heart beat or any movement I'm just sorry and then tells me she will order a second scan because I did not believe her I had just came from the gender reveal and the tech heard the baby's heart beat so long story short I'm crying hysterically and get all these pains because I think my baby is dead after trying to conceive for so many years they take me to the nicu for a second scan from a labor and delivery doctor who immediately comforted me by telling me your baby is alive and the heart beat is strong I was ecstatic a little to fast because soon after followed but there is something wrong with baby..... The baby's bladder was so big bigger then the baby's waist I was not expecting this at allll..... Now I'm just heart broken again wondering if my baby is in pain what is wrong why is this happening the doctor said we can see a specialist in two weeks time because the baby will be a little bigger and we will be able to see more I'm just at a lost for words does anyone have any experience with this I'm not sure what is going on and I'm sitting here and crying on and off