Advice Needed....Feeling not so great after amazing sex!! It's long I was rambling. Sorry
My husband and I have been really getting along lately. I mean we talk about stuff that's not the kids, the house or bills and we enjoy the conversation. We've been laughing a lot and complimenting each other. Don't get me wrong, we don't treat each other bad but he works 40+hrs a week and I work 2 part-time jobs at night plus go to school 3 days a week all while staying home during the day with our youngest who is 2. When we finally do get some time together we're both so freaking exhausted we can barely hold a conversation.
Well anyway back to my story. So when we are both energetic and happy to be around eachother our sex reflects it. We've been sexing for like 3 days now whenever we can get alone time (I'm a week away from my period so I'm super horny).
I work Thursday nights at one of my jobs so I put the baby down for a later than normal nap so I can shower and actually have time to shave and my husband comes home early so I can get to work on time. So I get out of the shower and walk into my bedroom and you guessed it; he is laying in bed very excited to see me which automatically excites me, like I said our sex lately has been off the charts. We are having a great time I'm whispering in his ear, he can't keep his hands of me which really gets me going. I was extraordinarily horny today that I decided when it was time for him to pull out I was going to take him in my mouth to let him finish. I get a lot of enjoyment out of pleasing my man, so I was happy to do it.
When we finished I had to immediately get dressed and get moving or I was going to be late for work. I walked over to him to passionately kiss him goodbye and he dodges me. So I said to him
"Kiss Me" and he made a face and said "No Thanks" I was so taken aback I couldn't say anything I just left. He texted me on my way to work to explain that it wasn't me, it was the fact that I just had his cum in my mouth and he didn't want to taste it. Now ladies it's not like I was cheeking that shit for later, I swallowed it immediately, but he couldn't get past it.
I was really hurt that he didn't kiss me. We have been having 3 days of amazing sex and getting along like we used to before we had kids, that I can't believe he didn't just suck it up and kiss his wife goodbye. I literally cried the whole way to work. Now I am PMSing so I can be a little emotional but he really hurt my feelings. I don't tell him to F-off when he smells and tastes like me after he goes down town. He just did that for me the least I can do is kiss him. Yet he doesn't see it that way. He says I'm making a big deal out of nothing and I should calm down and relax. It doesn't feel like nothing, I was really hurt. We have bonded so much more these last couple days and he couldn't even
F-ing kiss me.
Am I making a big deal out of nothing, or do I have a right to be upset? Please let me know what you think, or if your man has ever pulled that shh on you.
Some feedback would make me feel a lot better right now.
Thanks Ladies!!
Add Comment
Let’s Glow
Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy
Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.
25+ million
Users
4.8 stars
200k+ app ratings
20+
Medical advisors