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I'm asking first and formost, please don't be too harsh. I already feel pretty shitty about it to begin with. My child's father is my boyfriend of 4 years. We bought a house together and have a joint bank account and are pretty much married. Well anyway, we tried to get pregnant in Jamacia at a friends wedding, and needless to say it worked! Even though we weren't married were very financially stable and both just wanted to start a family together. Once I got pregnant he seemed so happy. Always talking to the baby and holding my belly. As she grew bigger and he could start to feel her little kicks, he had to put his hand and feel her EVERY time. He just seemed so inlove with his daughter already. Well now I'm almost 34 weeks pregnant and ever since her kicks have been super strong and she sticks like her bones out of my stomach and rolls, he is beyond "creeped out" he says. I try to tell him to feel her move but he just says "please Janine you know it creeps me out I don't like it". He doesn't ever talk to her anymore, he won't hold my stomach anymore nor does he ever wanna feel her move. And I can't help but feel completely crushed as if he doesn't care anymore. It may just be my hormones but I can't help it. Any advice ladies? Or any dads on here who can relate to him? Or anyone experience this? Please tell me I'm not the only one!
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