Well, I have just recently found out (about 2 months ago) that my SO masturbates to porn... I told him how I felt about it, which is that I don't like it and that it makes me feel unattractive, undesirable, hurt and upset. He kinda just didn't say much after i told him i would like him to stop and why. A couple of weeks pass and i find out he's doing it still! I broke down and started crying and we had the same argument all over again (this is about the third time we've had this argument) I also added this time, that it made me feel like less of a woman because we had been trying for a baby for quite some time and due to my health issues it is a long and bumpy road (as most of you would understand) so at this point im upset and crying and he's starting to raise his voice saying stuff like "you can't make me stop doing something like this, its not fair" "i don't think about the women im looking at while wanking when i finish, i just use them to get it done faster" etc etc by now I've sort of calmed down and said to him "I've told you how it makes me feel and why, its up to you wether you carry on doing this knowing that your hurting me"... was saying this too harsh? Am i just over reacting because im down about not being able to get pregnant easily like alot of our friends and family? Also would him masturbating (and i mean just about every day) affect our chances of pregnancy? Please advise... im stuck... 🙁