Since our daughter has been born, I've been alone with her almost everyday and the only time my SO is, is when I need to shower. We don't live together but when she was first born he stayed at my house for a couple of nights, helped tremendously and now... nothing. He stays at his house a majority of the week and I'm lucky if I see him three times a week. My mom has been more of a father to our daughter than he has and it's sad to me.