I got cheated on.. Wtf do I do?

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I need help. So recently I just got told my girlfriend has cheated on me. There are photos but I haven't been sent them yet. It was with this other her my girlfriend has been spending time with but I wasn't suspect anything because I trusted her & she said that she was just her cousins friend & I thought nothing of it. 😭😭
Please help me I have no clue what to do. I'm so angry, so upset & stressed out as it is now. Please someone just help me out. Should I ask for the photos for proof?

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You need to get the photos before assuming that this is actually real but if you have seen them then I'd send her them and block her off everything

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Get proof then dump her ass. The best way to get under her skin is to send her the photos and then just say "bye." And block her on everything. She doesn't deserve an explanation or a proper goodbye and she doesn't deserve you.

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I'd get proof and if the proof is cheating to you then dump her.

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I'd sit down and talk to her and print the pictures and plop them in her lap and be like "got an explanation?"

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My boyfriend told me the same thing a few weeks ago. It happened back in August when our relationship was still a few months fresh. He was crying and was getting on his knees apologizing explaining to me that the thought literally wanted to make him run away every night. It hurt him so much. I saw how upset he was and it was a moment where you knew he was truly sorry. Youd KNOW when they're sorry. I'm still bothered by it. If you know they're sorry then explain to them that it's something you'd get through together. Explain that what happened isnt completely dismissed and that you will need time to get through. And that's what you do. Just get through and rebuild the trust in the relationship. It still sticks in the back of my mind and ever since then, things have been a little different between us but the love is still there.

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Everyone is going to immediately say leave her, as someone who's been cheated on and cheated on someone it can be a grey area. Talk to them figure out if they're sincerely apologetic, because everyone makes mistakes sometimes. However if you feel like you can never trust them or forgive them again you should leave.

I got cheated on.. Wtf do I do?

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