So every year since my husbands nephew was born pretty much his entire family goes to the pumpkin patch because he is the only grandchild. I love going but his family gets under my skin sometimes. So this year since I found out that I'm pregnant (11 week) I decided that I wanted to go just me and my husband on a different day to pick out some pumpkins to do our announcement without having to deal will all their teasing and stupid comments, and my brother in law (nephews dad) is the one who has been getting under my skin the most, he is literally not happy unless he's relentlessly teasing you. Now that I'm pregnant he's trying to get me to cry because I'm so "hormonal" but really I've gone the other way, I've turned into a b***h if you push the wrong buttons. And I hate how angry I feel, so I'm just trying to avoid getting put in the kind of situation. But everyone's all butt hurt that we don't want to go with them. Making me the bad guy, but I want to do some things just me and my hubby. Is that such a bad thing??? I thought you were supposed to start creating your own memories when you got married and started a family? I'm the "outcast" in the family anyways, they never really include me but heaven forbid we do things on our own 😑