Miscarriage Effecting Marriage

Brittany • Baby Boy 1 ❤️ 9.19.2017 Baby Boy 2❤️ 8.29.2019
I miscarried on September 15, 2016. This was our first pregnancy after trying for 4 months. Obviously, we were thrilled to have a positive test, and when I had falling HCG levels it was horrifying.
I'm a board certified therapist, and I know that everyone handles grief so differently.  But, I'm really struck by my husband's quiet and lack of emotion about the subject. I became tearful today, and my husband became quite angry and said he couldn't deal with this today.  I'm looking for a local support group, but wanted to reach out to you all as well: 
Did you and your husband cope in different ways? How did you handle this?
What brought you two closer again?