SO and I have decided we are going to bury our sweet baby under the lilac tree on our property. I've loved that tree since the day I saw it. We haven't moved to the property yet, but our bedroom window will be facing it and I feel comfortable knowing he/she will be in a safe place. Feeling remorseful for our first lost child, I was in a Tim Hortons bathroom when I lost it and have felt so much guilt to this day for not fishing him/her out. We lost our first 4 days before Christmas, and second 2 days before Thanksgiving. These holidays have so much more meaning to us now.

If anyone else would care to share your story please do. I felt somewhat peaceful after deciding how to bury our 🌈. Kind of like going through the 'ceremony' may help us grieve and move forward in a way we couldn't last time.