break ups

Me and my boyfriend broke up over because he feel like I wasn't feeling the relationship and it wasn't Like that we knew each other for 6 years but never really got to know each other but he feels as though we didn't rush into it because we knew each other for so long but I'm trying get through his head yes we did but we didn't ask each other questions like what we like and don't like so I told him you know what it's best we be friends and beside in the relationship I feel like I was the man and he was the woman smh he wasn't being a man like for a example he was looking for me to make plans like I know it goes both ways but his the man shouldn't he make plans am I wrong