Help me... please be kind... ***TMI**

So about a month ago ish my SO was "fooling around with me" every since then I can't hold my pee at all and I used to be able to"hold it" for hours so my question is do u think I have weak plevis floor muscles or something else going on I feel fine and everything I'm not super worried just want others opinions... thanks ** and I drink alot of water in general I love water I just don't know whats going on**