I can't take it anymore.
Tonight I am tempted to end my relationship. We live together. I'm 4 months pregnant, and I have a 4 year old from a previous marriage and he calls him dad.. My SO sister, is an evil witch. She tries to compete for her brothers (my SO) attention, she's always texting him, always trying to get him to visit, she's disrespected me on SEVERAL occasions. and he will get onto her, but the next day everything is fine. He just says "I can't control her and she is my sister" and when I ask him to distance himself more from her, he just says "it's my sister" she's an on and off drug addict, never held down a job, and has always had someone taking care of her and has not even attempted to get a job since she got pregnant(due end of NOV) so however long that's been. She lives with their mom. I can't take it anymore. It's to the point I feel like I need to leave and move on.
My mom was on drugs for a period of time and he asked me to cut her off and I did my best by not communicating with her except she would come to my house if I didn't talk to her. I even agreed to get a restraining order on her until she finally gave up on showing up at our house. I've left behind a few of my good friends because he didn't trust them. Granted. He does a lot. But emotionally he just isn't there. Please someone tell me I'm wrong. Because I want to be wrong and be told I'm over reacting so bad. But since the beginning I feel like he's done nothing but let people come between our relationship (mainly sister) and it's turned me into a terrible person. I hate any and everything, I've become anxiety prone because I'm so stressed all the damn time and I feel like I don't know why I'm stressed. Please I need help. Somebody. I'm laying here just crying. I really need advice. I don't want to move forward with leaving if I'm wrong.
I've told himEXACTLY HOW I FEEL. I've told him everything I've said in this post and then some. And I never asked him to put her out of his life. Just a bigger distance with her
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