Would you do it

I need some help !!!!!

This is gonna be kinda long but please read and help me

Years ago when I was just dating my husband not married to him he went out got drunk and did some things that caused me to get a pfa on him and put him In jail. Once he got out I wanted to make things work with him and our kids . He lived away from our house for awhile and in the time I was still talking to him I slept with another man, I never told him, we got married and shortly after we were married he kept digging to find out the truth if I slept with this other person, I lied through my teeth, lied on everything and made him feel crazy cause I didn't want him to know and be hurt for weeks I lied and lied, than I finally told him the truth, we moved past it so I thought and the past few months he has been tracking me, recording me at home while he's not there, accusing me of so many things that I am not doing , finding things on recordings that aren't really happening he's just making up noises to be something they aren't. He find things that could explain things the way he sees them and accuses me of those things and I have cried to him and pleaded with him to stop and as his wife I would never ever disrespect my marriage. I love this man with all my heart and soul and this is all killing me. Yes I lied to him for weeks, yes I kept that secret with me for years but we weren't married and we weren't even living together anymore hell I still had a pfa on him when I slept with this other person and only once . Now my husband wants me to take a lie detector test to prove I haven't done anything he keeps accusing me of. Now as I wife I feel like it's so degrading and makes me feel like a less of a wife that I have to do this , answer questions about my personal life to a person I don't even know, make me look like this terrible person.. yes the test will prove I'm innocent and have done nothing wrong and a big part of me wants to do it and slap him in the face with it and my heart hurts that as a living faithful wife I have to go to that point.. please help me .... Would you take a lie detector test??? Would you degrade yourself like that as a wife ??