Every night while I'm up for several hours caring for our newborn, my husband is dead asleep without a care in the world. This infuriates me because I am SO TIRED! I only get to sleep 1-2 hours at a time and it's killing me. I'm on maturity leave and he's  working full time, I just think it's a bullshit excuse for him to help less. When I go back to work, I'll still have to wake up and take care of the baby on top of going to work. I'm also breastfeeding which is draining, honestly thinking about switching to formula because I need help!! We have no problems nursing but on top of no sleep, not a lot of help and a 3 yo IM LOSING MY MIND. When I tell my husband I need help, he gets mad and says he does help. Okay he changes a few diapers. When our son cries at night my husband for the life of him will not wake up... Our house could be on fire and he wouldn't wake up. So it's more work for me to wake up my husband to get him to feed and change the baby than just doing it myself. What's a girl to do?