I'm so fed up and I'm to my breaking point!!!! My husband and I have been married almost 3 years and have an almost 2 year old son. And at first his parents weren't really involved due to the fact they lived in Bangladesh (they're visiting now for 2 months).. but for the past 1 1/2 years he has been obsessed with putting them 100% in front of me and my feelings. I have no say over my son... my dog and cat are constitantly put away due to his mom having a phobia over anything that's not human and Bangladeshi... and his brother is moving in with us for us to baby him (he's never even had to make his own bed before).. on top of that I don't understand anything they're ever saying! And they never truly care to let me in on the conversation.. my husband and I rarely speak now of days unless I threaten to leave him which is just unhealthy. Oh and btw they're used to always having housemaid pick up after them in Bangladesh so I guess I'm the new house maid, I just don't get paid for it!!!! Like literally 15 min ago my brother in law let my inside cat outside (again) and she won't go back so I got mad and husband was at me for getting mad at his family.... like wtf. Idk what to do. And he also wants to move in with them completely after 6 months and doesn't care if I don't like it. I'm sorry I'm just venting but I need advice.. We've had talk of divorce lately and I hate it... he knows I feel he puts me 2nd and all he says is they have their place and I have my place...