Before you tell me what to try.. I'll tell you what I've tried.

- Cranberry pills

- Apple cider vinegar shots

- Washing myself before and after sex (I stay clean)

- He washes himself and his hands.. but I won't let him go anywhere near my region with his hands even after he cleans them because I'm afraid of the germs

- Peeing before and after

- taking probiotic daily pills

- Cranberry juice..but a nurse told me pineapple juice is actually better than cranberry so I've tried that too

- Cystex

- drinking lots of water

I cry so much about this... I am to the point where I don't think I can have a child due to this... I'm at my wits end... and no matter how many times I try to explain how horrible a uti is.. for those who don't deal with it on a daily basis won't understand... I feel like a horrible wife too because I tell him no due to being afraid... this is ruining my life and putting a strain on my marriage (nothing like him leaving me or anything) but I cry and am upset all the time over this.. I'm depressed. It doesn't help that I see babies everywhere! One of our friends got married just a month after we did and they announced their pregnant with their second child yesterday.