I have a 5 year old step son and I made sure I planed my shower on the weekend we don't have him.

1. In my option its an adult party and he wouldn't have fun.

2. He would pop/ mess up all of the decorations before the party started.

3. He would be running around wild the whole time or up his dads butt.

My husband completely agreed on not having him there. My one friend I invited bother her and her boyfriend (she just lost a pregnancy so I thought it'd be better with him there) they have his kids that weekend and she asked if they can come. One is under 9m and the other one is under 2 I think. I think they would be good but I need opinions 😣