My husband and I have been together for 10 years. Yesterday was his birthday and our daughter and I gave him presents, then we went out to eat where he wanted to go. Then we took our daughter to my moms for the night because we decided to go to the strip club, neither one of us have ever been and we have been talking about it for a while. So we pull up at the strip club and it was packed and we both said at the same time "let's just go to a regular bar". So we left and headed to a bar when I seen another strip club so I said babe lets go there. We had a blast and the girls were so beautiful and very sweet and friendly to me. I had the girls all over me and my husband just watching. They made me feel so comfortable and was very respectful of me and even asked permission to talk to my husband. We had a really great time. Now today, the next day, I'm feeling really insecure about my body and I don't even know why. It's been years since I felt this way. I just feel like maybe he is wishing that I look like those girls and wishing I could do the things that they can. I weigh 280 pounds and my husband weighs 180. I don't know why I'm feeling so bad about myself today when we had a great time and my husband never said or done anything out of the way. Please don't bash me and say negative things, I'm already feeling bad about myself. Have any of you ever been to a strip club with your spouse and how did it go? I could really use some encouraging words right now. I'm sorry this was so long and thank you for reading, if you read this far lol.