I'm in California. My man is in Virginia. We love each other, but it's just new again. I broke up with him June before I left for India for two months because I thought he was cheating and I just get so sold out for him. I just visited him two weekends ago, it's going good, but I'm sold out again, and knowing him, I don't know what he's doing. He said he had "a gf" in Virginia but I'm his "wife" and everything. I don't know if that gf thing has really changed since, but I don't take it seriously especially since all his friends in Virginia definitley know I am with him. I don't know. I'm not going to break things off with him again. He's coming back in summer and he'll visit and I'll visit again before that, and he said I can move out there. There are definitley guys that like me here, guys that I have history with too, but like I said I've been pretty sold out. I'll still flirt sometimes, but that's it. Also he and I hooked up a lot again when I visited, and now I'm just waiting for my period if you know what I mean... he said, "I hope you're not on the pill, so you can have our baby." Haha. Ha.. I don't know why he says things like this it's like bad but at the same time flattering and cute...