The advice my boyfriend gives me...
This is the advice, not in so many words, that my boyfriend gives me when I'm sad, angry or down about TTC and the fact it's taking so long for us. He tells me I'm missing life because I'm too focused on what I want and not on what I have. It's true and it's taken some pretty tragic things to happen to people I care about to realise this. It doesn't stop me getting angry or sad and it doesn't stop me crying most days at the moment, but I'm now aware of this and trying to make the most of what we're doing.
Anyway, I saw this on Facebook today and thought of share. It really is what my boyfriend has been telling me and its true. You read all the time of people sadly and suddenly having their lives cut short, and you never know if or when that might happen to you or your partner. All I think is, I don't want my last memories to be of me avoiding activities with my partner because I'm sad or my endo pain is giving me grief. I don't want him to have those memories either.
Anyway, TTC sucks and makes me cry most days at the moment (coming up to a FS apt to book in treatment) but I try not to let it ruin my whole day.

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