is it too soon?

Jaz • Been with my boyfriend for 16 months💕
Hey ladies. So I broke up with my boyfriend of two years and then slept with another man 2 days later. I know you're thinking "slut" but hear me out. My boyfriend cheated on me twice and he hadn't even looked at me in the last 6 months. He asked me to gain weight so others wouldn't look at me. Then I went out for a work drink & slept with one of the guys. We've both fallen pretty hard for each other but I don't know if I can do the whole relationship thing again right now. Do my question is: is it too soon?