Im 21 hes 24... So I have known this guy friend of mine for about a year now, we both have feelings for each other and were messing around over the weekend. We didnt have sex but he performed oral and so did I. This was our first time doing anything sexual to each other. Well he stopped talking to me so i went to his house to confront him. I was pretty pissed off when i got there because well you dont just do that to someone. Here to find out his biggest secret that no body knows about is he has genital herpes!!!! After he told me that i couldnt even say anything.when we performed oral there was not bumps or blisters so i was shocked.. He started crying and apologizing. He never thought that he would have to tell me this. He said he never thought i would feel the same about him and when i did he didnt know how to tell me. I want to be mad but i cant. Im also scared that i might have gotta herpes althought still no signs of anything. Uhg what to do!? Opinions!?