How are you telling SO

Lovely • IG: TTC #4. Sept 2014 tubal reversal. Feb 2016 HSG: blocked tubes. May 2016 IVF: failed. Aug 2016 BFP turned to 4th loss

What are some ideas to tell your so about pregnancy???

My husband's bday is January 20th and I don't know if I can wait that long tho tell him but I need ideas please