I breastfeed, and pump while I'm at work (full time) to leave milk for my husband to feed her. But according to him, she's gone from eating 4oz with him to 2oz, to refusing to eat at all with him. I feel like he's just not trying. So every day I'm at work, and he's texting me telling me that our daughter is going 8 hours without eating? Really? We have many different bottles to choose from, and nipples, too. He can't be bothered to try any but the one that's closest. Apparently, that's too complicated.

So instead, every day I leave him a happy, dry, fed baby. And I come home to a miserable, wet, starving baby.

I know I've had some mild ppd issues, but I can't help but snap at him when I come home because it's like that all the time. Then he blames me for bringing negative energy into the house and making him upset and angry.

I'm hoping this is just a phase. I don't know what to do. I can't understand how he loves her so much, but he's not willing to put any effort into making her eat more. I don't know what else to do.

Edit: To make up for how little she eats during the day, I feed her almost all through the night. So she is still gaining healthily and all, but I'm so exhausted. She only started refusing to eat with him and all within the past two days. Before that, she would eat, if only a little. And he doesn't leave her diaper dirty the whole time I'm gone; he'll change it once, but even if he changes her 4 hours after I leave, he'll still wait decide to leave a wet or dirty diaper for me when I get home from work and SHOULD be able to concern myself with feeding her right away since she doesn't want to eat with him. He adores her when I'm home; always wants to hold her, cuddle her, talk to her, teach her things. But when I'm gone something is different.