The Italian is still with the Amsterdam girl, and their relationship has been threatened many times, because of my existance in the Italian's life. The girl can't stand the fact that I'm her boyfriend's best friend. She prohibited him to keep in touch with me & this affected me very much, but I was able to respect it. But, 6 months later, he wrote and begged me to please keep our friendship. I decided to do so, because those 6 months felt very empty for me.

This past week, his girlfriend contacted me saying that she was sorry for prohibiting us to talk, and told me she needed advice for her relationship with the Italian... They broke up after 3 years of being together. I'm trying to talk to him to get back to her, now that she's a great girl (besides everything), and they both deserve each other, even though I don't like to admit it. She got mad at the fact that the Italian and I still kept in touch without her consent, but she knows that at this point, I'm the only one who can help her to come back with her boyfriend... (ex, at the moment). I have the power to either break that relationship, or bring it back... I know exactly how to deal with the Italian because I know him too well. Crazy how this all happens, and I live miles and miles away from both.