Let's try this one again with more info 😅 I seem to have confused and concerned people last time. I'm 19, SO is 21. Stable relationship for 4 years. I live at home with my mom, grandma, and two sisters. We are all very close (I most likely wouldn't move out if I didn't want a family of my own). I pay bills, my prescriptions, and run my own business. Everything is hunky-dory. I intend to move out as soon as my family can comfortably sustain themselves without my absence causing an issue (I take care of many things and love them dearly). After being on the pill for 4 years, my SO and I are now not trying, not preventing (with the intention to wait but being ready if it happens, I won't be making an effort to get pregnant at all). That's seriously not an issue monetarily or emotionally on anyone (even my family). My momma knows I'm on the pill but we never directly discussed me being sexually active and now I will no longer be taking it so I am nervous about what to say (anxiety disorder doing its thing). I just want a game plan so that I can enjoy this next bit of life not be crippled by anxiety haha. I hope that makes better sense and I'm sorry if I upset anyone! 😱