I waited until i was 19 to lose my virginity back in august about to start my second year of college. Although it was with my fwb (which is exactly what i wanted) i feel like sex would have sucked in high school & brought so much stress to my life because of the stigma to it. Either everyone was doing it & it was normal or you were doing it with a committed partner & still being called a slut. It made no sense & i honestly never felt pressured. The best advice i can give to those of you who are <18 & in high school is to wait