So, I am founding out that my husband is messaging people on his game but only the ones who identify as women. I feel disrespected because he is not just taking about the game; but, he is talking to them about ages, where they live at, what they are thinking about, what they enjoy doing and saying how beauty is defined by one's personality and interests and how she seems beautiful. Am I wrong to be upset that one he has not been open that he has been messaging people and two that he is virtually talking to someone?

My feelings are hurt but I feel like he will blow it off when I say something and cast it as being innocent

I just don't want to be one of those wifes that get butt hurt over something simple but right now this does seem that simple to me.

Thank you in advance